| Location | Invergordon,scotland..now Sleeping In Heaven.... |
| Age | 71 years |
| Cause of Death | Heart Attack |
| Date of Birth | 23/06/1936 |
| Date of Death | 09/12/2007 |
| Visitors | 478 since 27/08/2009 |
| Creator |
UPDATED.... OCT 09..
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As you will see,i have frozen my dads site.. I have decided that myself will be the only person who
writes on my dads site.. I am sorry for any inconvenience this may cause,I hope you will all
understand.. Love and light to you all xxx
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Name : Hector Mackenzie
Lived : Invergordon, Scotland
Date of birth : 23rd June 1936
Date of death : 9th Dec 2007
Date of funeral : 15th Dec 2007
Date ashes scattered : 5th May 2008 in Gairloch,Scotland
Cause of death : Heart attack,
Chronic pulmonary disease
Emphysema
Stroke
This is My Memorial Site for my wonderful Dad,Hector..
He lived,and died,a wonderful man,one whom I was,and always will be,proud of...
My parents split when I was about 5,but that never stopped me seeing my dad every year.. I looked
forward to our holidays with him..Sometimes he would drive down from Scotland to pick me and my 2
sisters up,and drive us back to Scotland.,.
When I left school I moved up to live with my dad,and although we had our fallouts,he still remained
my dad,one whom I loved with all my heart..
My dad had gone through various health problems throughout his life,but he always pulled
through,thats why I thought he would pull through this one...how wrong was i??
My dad was cruelly took away from me on Sunday 9th December 2007 at approx 11pm.. earlier that
week,he had been diagnosed with fluid on the lungs,he had been complaing of struggling for
breath,and he had a swollen belly..
I last spoke to my dad on the Sat,the 8th,when he phoned me to tell me he had received our xmas
present we had sent him,i remember havin a go at him for openin them so early..was he tellin me
something?? did he know he was goin to go and wouldnt make it to xmas day??I will never know now...
He also joked to me that his belly was so swollen,he might not hav been able to 2 fit in2 his kilt
for our upcoming weddin which was going to be in 2008...
Little did i know that that converstaion was going to be our last..he told he how much he loved me
on the phone,something which he never normally did..
I got off the phone and told my now husband that i felt something was wrong.I said I would have to
go and see him soon as he didnt sound well at all.. well I never got the chance as the followin day
he passed away..alone in his bed...
We postponed our weddin until 20th June 09 and although it was hard to go through with it without my
dad,|I know he would have been proud of me,he even made an appearance at our wedding which you can
see in his pics..
I miss my dad more than words can describe.. not a day goes by where I don't dream of him or I don't
think of him.. he was my dad,the only parent and family member I looked up to...
I would give anything for him to come home,to see his grandson Luke grow up.. he was always proud of
Luke,commenting on how clever he was etc,and I will make sure Luke never forgets his wonderful
granddad,the only grandparent who doted on him....
I wish he had got to meet my husband Dave,he always said I needed to find a good man and settle down
and now I have,hes not here to share it with me :-(
I hope my dad will be proud of me for everything I do,and if I can be half the person my dad
was,,then I know I will go far..
I miss my dad so so much,and I will love him for eternity..
I know I will see him again one day ,and knowing that,thats what gets me through every day....
Goodnight God bless Dad.... Love from your little girl xxxxx
hey you,wot a week iv had.. so much is goin inside my little head dad...i dont no whether im coin or goin lately..
it will be 2 years on 9th dec that u were took away from us.. how am i goin 2 cope?? well i know i will cope coz i have to,but its goin2 be hard.. i hate xmas now.. i only go thru with it coz of luke!
we got some good news 2day which has peved me off that i cant share with you!!!
we got a date for our ivf procedure.. its 25th january dad.. so in middle of december i gotta start takin my hormone tablets and injections for 6weeks then i go in for my egg collection and then the implantation,so fingers crossed if i works i cud be pregnant by feb! im not guna get hopes up tho as it only a 25% chance of it workin but hey.. i really hope it does..
its killin me not bein able 2 share this with you,and havin to do it on a feckin pc... it makes me so mad.. you shud be here dad..not somewhere where i cant see you..
i am so sorry dad bout how im feelin right now.. i cant help it.. my emotions are taking over me and i wish i cud control them.. i just miss you so much..and im so lonely without you here..plz come home dad..
i love u with every inch of my broken heart. im just a normal girl tryin2 live her life,but is missing her dad so much.. is that so wrong???
nite nite dad... come visit me in my dreams..loved and missed forever and always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hey there!! god what a hectic few weeks Dad!!!! Well we have finally moved in!!! the house is stunning dad,u wud be so chuffed with it! its got a livin room,games room,dining room and kitchen, 2 landings,a bathroom and 3 bedrooms!its huge!!! takes alot to clean like but u know i like cleaning hehehehe
its been really hectic havin to sort all our stuff out but we are gettin there.. it was a bit weird givin up the other house.. iv been in there nearly 7 years lol but i am glad i have moved and have settled up home with dave and luke.. i will put pics up soon for u to see dad..
lukes doin really well at school,gettin a little bit of an attitude on him but hey he takes after me lol
daves jobs going well,hes likin it,and like i said,the moneys good...
my jobs goin really good as well,its tiring work but i love it,and wudnt change it for the world! so yeh things are finally lookin up.. i have left the bad people behind and havnt bothered with them no more.. u no who i mean dad dont u? and since not speakin to none of them i have been the happiest i have ever been.. dont get me wrong there is some days i wish i knew wot it was like to have a proper mum and do proper mum and daughter things but i have never had that so iv gotta accept i will never have that now..but to be fair dad the only parent i had was u and now uv gone,i will manage on my own.. iv come this far havnt i dad? i know u wud be proud of me,despite wot spiteful ppl think and say...
oh the ivfs goin really well dad,we got back next week.. thats tiring as well as these tests and things but hey if it works it will be worth it!
Its just goin to be a shame if it did work u will never get 2 meet ur other grandchild but at least u got to meet luke and watch him grow up ,until you went away.. I know u wud have been a good grandad and doted on the baby if it happened... daves mum and dad will have enough love for u dad,and i know u wud be lookin down and watchin over us...
its just guna be a shame that it wud grow up without any family on my side,no grandparents,aunties,cousins etc but hey,me and luke are doing fine with that fact so 1 more wont matter wud it? lol
we have dave,and daves family which is a great support and help,but boy dad,i wud give anything for my dad to be here with me.. its not the same without u here...
so much is happenin and u r not here for me 2 share it with.. that hurts...mroe than u will ever imagine..
well dad i gota go get ready for work so i will love you and leave u for now...
dont worry if i dont come back for a while,i will be busy,but i will come on as often as i can dad...
always in my heart dad,thinkin of u every single minute of every day.. come visit me in my dreams soon dad..
love you sooooooo much and always will...
Miss you from here to eternity...
your heartbroken daughter xxxxxxxxxxx
Hey ho daddy!!! Sorry i aint been on in sooo long,sooo much has gone on u wud never believe!!!
Daves job is goin well,hes loving it! the hours are pants but hey,we cant be too picky!
The ivf is going good too,we go back in november to see the consultant and then ill start on my daily injections...its goin to be tough btu with what iv had to go thru,i know ill manage.. i can do anything i put my mind to cant i dad?? Its hard not havin you here to tell all our good news to but i know that when i do speak to you out loud,that u can hear me...
We move house this week,i cant wait!! Its massive!!! 3 bedrooms,3 drooms downstairs plus a massive kitchen! 2 floors upstairs... its massive!! its all been decorated for us as well which makes it easier for us,least we wont have to do anything when we move in lol
ill keep u posted on our big move!
Lukes doing well at school as you can probably see.. i am so proud of him!
thankyou for the lovely sign you gave him the other day,mind u,he pooped his pants lol keep them comin dad!!!
as you know,i went to see the psychic the other day.thanku for the lovely messages.. it was comforting to know that u are watchin over me..
I miss u dad so so much and i wish you were here with everything that we are goin thru... my life is going great at the minute and u aint here to share it with me,to see me happy...
Keep watchin over me dad,and plz give me some more signs!!!
Right dad i am off to do some mroe packing!!!! i will be back soon to chat to you... never forget you dad...
u are one in a million xxxx
hey handsome!!! what you up2 on this cold dark fri nite?? im sat waitin for dave 2 finish work then we are guna order a pizza.. yum yum!!!
did u see my new tattoos dad?? boy they hurt!!! i was nearly cryin lol
im gettin your portrait done in a few weeks which is going to look lovely.. i cant wait.. its goin to hurt tho but it will be worth it!!!
im so glad you are back so i can pop on and tell you my news,altho theres not much 2 tell just now lol
ull be pleased 2 know dave finally got a job!! he loves it and the money is real good.. we are able 2 do things now which we didnt do before.. its nice tho he is goin out and providin for me and luke.. thats wot a real daddy does isnt it dad?? unlike some eh??
oohh luke starts back school on monday!!! year 2 dad.. your little boys grown up now!! u wud be so proud of him... keep watchin over us dad and appearing in pictures like u keep doin.. it gives me great comfort to know you are watchin over us..
Well I best get goin as its only a quickie.. i best go tidy up,the house is a mess lol;
have a lovely nite dad whatver you do with your angel friends and always remember I love you so so so so much and would give anything to have you back here where you belong but hey,we will see each other soon ok??
Love you daddy xxxx
Welcome Back Dad!!!!
Hey Dad,i have finally found a spare 5mins to come on and message you..
As you will see you are back where you belong!!!
As you will know,a spiteful family member or members were taking great pleasure in loggin on here and readin what iv been writin,all them times ive come on and cried as i write to you,they or she,had been comin on,readin it and then I got a nasty email slaggin what id wrote to you,basically sayin its all false and that you wud be turnin in your grave,they were mocking how i was feelin which to me is sick! Shows you doesnt it?? the type of family i have!!
So as a result of this I removed your site while i went away and thought about it,and it was Dave who made me see sense and he was right.. why should i let them drive you away from here??you hav every right to be here and i have every right to write wot i want and so wot if they dont like it??
I have changed my email address now so no1 will be able 2 contct me no more,unless its thru here but i will just report them if they do.. least i wont get no more emails off them..
I hope youve been ok since i left you,not a day went by when i didnt think of you..it killed me not bein able 2 come on and talk to you.. but hey,thats all in the past isnt it ad? you are back now and all my gts friends are delighed you are back!!!
So much has happened since you left,i will get back on later and fill u in on certain stuff,some stuff will remain private but i will talk to you 2nite about it..
well dad im going to go as iv got to take luke somewhere..
Always remember how much I love you and miss you..and hey dad....
its good to see you back :-)
All my love, your little girl xxxx
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